I'm currently taking an Arabic class. I've dabbled with learning Arabic before. It is not an easy language for an English speaker to learn!
I'm taking a community college class, so there are no grades and no real requirements to participate fully.
I've taken this class before. Always, in the past, I was really busy, over committed and traveling a lot. This time, when I signed up, I decided to take it really seriously and make it a priority.
This past week, I studied an hour every day. I did writing, speaking and listening drills. I felt like I did everything I could do to be prepared.
When I went to class this week, it was GREAT! I felt completely ready. I was well prepared. I could do all the exercises in class. I was so well grounded in the previous weeks' work that I was able to easily absorb the new material we went over. It felt good.
Not everyone in the class fared so well. I was one of the only people that responded to a lot of the teacher's questions and prompts.
I left feeling satisfied.
On my way out the door, I heard one student saying to another, "Mental note to self: DO NOT COME TO CLASS UNPREPARED... EVER AGAIN!"
In that moment, I felt empathy for her experience. I haven't been in that place often in my life, but I certainly have been there.
She was having the 'flip side' experience from what I was having. I had been well prepared and it felt great. She had been ill prepared and it felt overwhelming and unpleasant.
Putting in the energy and time required by an endeavor is a very satisfying experience. Trying to take short cuts really doesn't serve us well. It might bring short term gain, but we pay a heavy price for it in the end.
Here's to being prepared! Put in the time and energy you need to put in! You'll be glad you did!